I’ve always talked about how life moves in spirals—how we circle back to themes that need deeper understanding. That this propels everything to grow and evolve.

I knew enough about frequency through the study of cymatics, to know how vibration shapes energy into patterns that become physical. I used healing frequencies in my wellness work for over a decade. But I had no idea how this would one day lead me into the cosmic nature of life, death, and the physics of love itself.

One day, about a year after Harley’s passing, I stood on a sidewalk with a friend talking about the synchronicities showing up in both our lives. I brought up the spiral—how it seemed connected to everything happening with Harley, and this ongoing exchange we were building.

Mid-conversation, I looked down. Between my feet lay a perfectly formed gold metal spiral. Directly, perfectly between my feet. At the exact moment I was talking about how the spiral shapes reality.

I took a photo. Sent it to my friend. Picked up the golden spiral and shook my head. How does this keep happening?

The second I acknowledged what I was seeing, the physics showed itself everwhere. 

The Spiral was structure, movement, and frequency. It was not only the pattern we see everywhere in nature: vortices, spiral arms, sunflowers, our DNA—but the actual pattern that love and evolution follow. 

Shortly after this realization, I was led to research from Cornell University on frequency spirals in coupled oscillator systems. I’d never heard of this work before. Never searched for it. Never had reason to look. But there it was. Waiting for me. The physics that explained exactly what I’d been living since Harley transitioned.

This has become the foundation of everything I now understand about continuing bonds. And how unconditional love creates a shared energy field between bonded pairs that doesn’t end at death. What I call the Soul Braid.